August 28, 1975 Learning French table manners

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Dear Mom and Daddy,

Thank you very much for the letter!  It was brought to me at the lunch table–a very pleasant surprise.  I’m sorry I’ve taken so long to write–but I decided to wait until I got to Clermont.  (Everyone just calls it Clermont.)

I must clear up one thing first.  The six others you told me would be in France are the AFSers from countries other than the USA.  There are also 32 other Americans besides me.  I’m not sure, but I think I mentioned Roberto in my first letter to you–he’s the Uruguayan.  A lot of his mannerisms remind me of sister L. and her husband Bob.

Anyway, all 39 of us came to Bourg-Saint-Maurice for our week of orientation.  We lived in the dorms until one morning my four roommates and I were moved out to make room for a group of handicapped persons.  We were installed in a sort of flat that families usually inhabit.  It was really nice to live there for the last few days.  We had kitchen equipment and our own bathroom and water closet.  (We no longer had walk down a long hall to the john!)  And it was nice to have a table to sit at and talk with our other friends who came up.  In the dorms, there wasn’t much room for anything but beds and suitcases.  One nice thing about both places–they had balconies where we always went out on to sing and play the guitar or just sit and watch the Alps.

The weather at Village Vallée Haute was warm whenever the sun was actually out.  (It was for the first few days.)  But we had a thunderstorm and then clouds and fog and rain for a couple of days.  In the morning the Alps were very white whenever they peeked out from the clouds.

The main reason for this camp was to sort of ease us into the shock of the French culture by throwing us into their vacation place.  Also, it was to make a solidarity between us AFSers in France.

On Saturday the 23rd of August, a bus came and took us up to Tigne Dam–much higher in the Alps.  ( In French it was called Barrage de Tigne, barrage means dam so I hope I translated it right.)  That was the most beautiful bus ride I’ve ever taken.  We climbed and wound higher into the lovely green mountains.  When I looked down, out of the window of the bus, I was looking down about 2,000 feet.

Every now and then we would drive through a narrow street through a little stone village with geraniums in all the window boxes.  Or we would look across the canyon at little villages and cottages perched on the lush, green slopes.  When we finally reached the dam, we were in the clouds.  That’s the first time I’ve ever gone to the rain instead of it coming to me.  After touring the dam (it was fascinating) we drove higher into the Alps to the ski resort of Val dIsère.  It’s quite a tourist trap, but still picturesque to me.  Anyway, at least we weren’t there during ski season.  We were allowed to get out and explore for 45 minutes.  Sarah (my friend, another Californian) and I immediately wanted to go see the old stone church whose spire we could see.  It was a lovely old place, and we went inside and stared at the gilded ;paintings and statues of Mary and candleabras.  Then we decided we were cold, so we stopped in a little café and ordered a café which was in a demi-tasse, very thick and very good.

Oh something I forgot– on our way to the dam, we stopped in a little village to tour a real, old fashioned tannery.  Not a factory, but a place that is run by one old man and his apprentice.  They warned us about the smell (dead cow smell, dung, etc.) but it didn’t bother me because it was so interesting.  The man showed us how they take the hair off the hide and how they soften it and cure it, etc.  (If you’re wondering how I understand these people who speak French– I don’t.  Not enough, at least.  The AFS staff members translate into English for our benefit.)

Mom, there is one French custom concerning food that I know you would absolutely adore.  Lunch and dinner are always finished with cheese and fruit.  Usually a few different kinds of cheese.  I’ve tasted so many cheeses that in America cost a fortune.  Bleu cheese, Camembert, goat cheese and many others that I didn’t retain the name of.  Some smelled pretty rank, but you get used to it.  The way it is eaten is like so:  you slice off some cheese and put it on your plate.  (Often the same as your dinner plate which you have cleaned up with a piece of bread.)  Then you rip off a piece of bread and spread some cheese on it and eat it.  When you are finished you have some fruit.

The area of France that Bourg-Saint-Maurice is in is called the Savoie–they are famous for some of their cheeses.  When I come back to America, I don’t know how I’m going to get rid of all these wonderful table manners that are considered very rude in America:  elbows on the table, wiping up plates with bread and scooping things onto your fork with your knife.

For things to drink–syrups are very, very common.  Similar to grenadine–they have orange, lemon, crème de menthe, etc.  You pour a little in the bottom of your glass and add water.  Also alas, Pepsi-Cola for God’s sake.  I had beer with my lunch a couple of times–a very weak beer that comes in a liter bottle. (No, you don’t drink a whole liter!)  Also, every now and then I would be at a table for dinner that had wine.  The wine isn’t strong at all either.  It couldn’t be because the adults drink quite a bit of it.  Also it’s not unusual to take half a glass of wine and add water to it.  I did that a few times.

At this vacation camp, nothing in the way of food was wasted.  We were also told that all of France is that way.  For instance, there is always a basket of bread on the table.  If all of it is not eaten, it is dumped back into the original large basket of bread.  And at breakfast, if you don’t use all the butter or jam you put in a little glass dish, you put it back and someone else will take it.  The main course dishes that were left over were taken back to the kitchen and utilized somehow.  I know that leftover vegetables were pureed to make the soup that started off dinner every night.

Did I tell you about the crêpes?  At the village (the vacation village, not Bourg-St-Maurice; St Maurice had many pâtisseries), a little hut opens up between 4:30 and 6:30 p.m.  and sells crêpes because dinner isn’t until 8:00 p.m. They are made one at a time on a large round griddle and then flipped over onto another griddle.  Butter is spread on’em, then sugar or jam and then they are wrapped in foil and given to you for between 38 and 52 cents! This is a very popular snack in France and can be bought at any pâtisserie or a place selliing only crêpes called a crêperie.

I’ll tell you about Clermont in my next letter.  Love, F.

Wednesday, August 19, 1975 Arrival in France

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4:00 p.m. here, 9:00 a.m. in Chico

Cher Maman et Papa,

Yes, I am in France!  I want to tell you that I am very thankful that you were so helpful  and understanding in getting me here. I think I will have a very enjoyable year and when I return next summer, you will have  a French daughter.

Flying in an airplane without seeing any scenery makes it hard to believe you are in another country after a couple of hours.  We were all glad to leave C. W. Post College where we had our orientation ’cause the food stunk. (Literally.)  Monday afternoon we arrived at the airport and finally boarded our huge 749 (Air India).  It was as wide as my plane from California, but much, much longer.  AFS had bought all the seats on the plane.  We students filled up 250 seats.  I feel sorry for the lovely Indian stewardesses in their saris who waited on us; we were pretty rowdy.

You know, you can walk around on those planes!  We had dinner-breast of chicken- and at 6:00 a.m. French time we had a continental breakfast.  There was a cocktail lounge upstairs that was reserved for first class-but which we were allowed up to look at, a few people at a time. The sunrise was beautiful.

We finally descended upon Paris at 7:45 a.m.  The plane almost went hysterical with joy. At Orly airport we were separated into countries and bussed off.  Our bus didn’t come until 11:30 a.m. so we sat around and talked.  Went to the ladies’ room and was slapped in the face with France:  there was a lady sitting there in a white uniform with a dish for money.  You must put 50 centimes or 1 franc in the dish in order to use the toilet in a public place.  They have brown toilet paper in France.

Finally–our 12 hour bus ride to Village Vallée Haute at Bourg-St-Maurice.  (Bourg means little village.)  We had a very modern bus but we kept falling asleep because we hadn’t slept all night.  The countryside wasn’t very thrilling for the first part of the day anyway.  We were on a freeway (“autoroute”).  We stopped at a French rest stop and were handed out very strange box lunches which of course included a very crusty french roll and Camembert cheese.

In the late afternoon and early evening we began to get into the Alps.  Fantastic.  SO TALL!!  Had another box lunch at Chambery on the front lawn of one of the French staff members.  At last–Village Vallée Haute. We were to stay in the Young People’s Residence.  It was 10:30 at night and all the curious French kids came out and helped us with our baggage.

Thursday, August 20, 1975 Bourg-Saint-Maurice

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The only time I’ve been homesick so far was on the plane from Chico to San Francisco.  Now I’ve made so many friends–it’s terrific.  I’ve made friends with the multi-nationals–the AFS kids from foreign countries going to France also.  A guy from Uruguay named Roberto, a guy from Iceland and a guy from Sweden named Göran.  When we cannot understand each other in English, it is necessary to speak in French.

Ooh la la!  The French meals!  It is a very new exerience.  You must keep both hands on the table (you knew that, Mom).  The continental breakfast is very good.  In the main building at Vallée Haute is the “cafeteria” where we eat.  For breakfast, we get a tray, put a bowl on it and put spoonfuls of coffee or chocolate and dehydrated cream in the bowl and add boiling water.  Out of a basket you take pieces of “French” bread.  Then you take a little glass dish and put butter in it and whatever sort of confiture you wish also.  I’ve been putting applesauce on mine. Très délicieux!  It is strange to lift up a big bowl to drink out of.

The first morning was very awkward for us.  But we watch and we learn.  We also speak French as much as possible.  We eat lunch at 1:15 (or as the French often say, 13:15.  Strange.)  and dinner at 8:00 p.m.  They are of equal size, the two meals.  At about 5:00 p.m. a little hut opens up that sells crêpes for un goûter (a snack).  It’s fascinating to watch them made.

At dinner we sit with the French families.  They are all vacationing here and must be a little bored.  Therefore they are very interested in us.  A list has been printed up that tells our names and where we are to live in France.  I have so far been searched out by three families who live in Clermont-Ferrand and who were very nice.  I have learned that my school is a private girls’ school (for the wealthy) and that it will probably be difficult and that they probably don’t wear uniforms.

Also, Marie-O.  is married and has two children, approximately age 3 years and 1 month.  That should be an exerience.  Don’t worry, I will be helpful around the house, etc.  Also, the G. family are in the U.S. because their daughter Nathalie is a W.P. 76  (Winter Program 76) in AFS just like me.  Except she has gone to the U.S.  I’m surprised Mrs. McD or someone didn’t understand what W.P 76 stood for.

When you write, ask many questions.  That is the only way you will find out what you want to know.  Do not worry at all. The French are very similar to the North Americans, at least at this holiday resort.  I’m afraid I won’t be able to write everyone I hoped.  Today I will write sister L. and Betsy too, O.K.?  Till next time- Love, F.